Female Masseuse & Male Client: Practical Tips & Etiquette

If you’re a guy booking a massage with a female therapist, you might wonder what’s normal and what’s not. The good news? It’s simple – treat the session like any other professional appointment. Show up on time, be clear about what you want, and respect the therapist’s space. That’s all you need to feel relaxed and get the most out of the experience.

Setting the Right Tone Before Your Session

Start with a quick call or chat when you book. Let the spa know if you have any medical issues, injuries, or specific goals (like stress relief or muscle tension). This helps the therapist plan the right pressure and techniques. If you’re nervous, say so – most therapists appreciate honesty and will adjust their approach.

When you arrive, keep your phone on silent and bring only what you need: wallet, ID, and maybe a water bottle. Changing rooms are private, so you won’t see anyone else. Put your belongings in the locker, step out, and give the therapist a friendly “hello.” A simple smile goes a long way.

During the Massage: What’s Okay and What’s Not

While the massage is happening, focus on your breathing. Talk only if the therapist asks for feedback – for example, “That’s too hard,” or “Can you work more on my lower back?” Unsolicited comments about the therapist’s appearance are a no‑go. Keep the conversation professional and brief.

Boundaries are key. The therapist’s hands, elbows, and forearms are the tools of the trade. Touching their body, adjusting their position, or trying to start a personal conversation crosses the line. If you feel uncomfortable at any point, say “I need a break” and the therapist will pause.

At the end of the session, the therapist will give you a moment to get dressed. That’s when you decide on tipping. In Dubai, a 10‑15% tip is standard, but you can adjust based on service quality. Hand the tip discreetly, thank them, and head out feeling refreshed.

Remember, a professional spa environment is built on mutual respect. By being clear, polite, and mindful of boundaries, you’ll enjoy a great massage and leave the therapist happy too. Whether you’re a first‑timer or a regular, these simple habits make every appointment smoother and more effective. Enjoy the relaxation and let the expertise do the rest!